If you’re wondering how to motivate a man’s hero instinct, this article is for you. To be honest, we can’t say that enough: he must feel like he’s chasing you until he commits to you. The trick, of course, is to find the right balance.
To explain this balance, let’s talk about what extremism is and how you can trigger your man’s hero instinct by making him wish you and keep the hunt alive.
in the First, there is the extreme of being desperate and needy. I know that these two words “desperate” and “needy” are not pretty.
Nobody wants to think of themself as behave that way.And they certainly don’t want the man they want to stay with to think about them that way. Frankly, it’s not something men want from their women.
I mean, what do you think of when you think of a desperate and needy person?
Perhaps you can imagine funny scenes where a woman holds a man’s ankles and asks him to love her. And he’s dragging her around and tries to take her fingers off from his leg.
The truth is that you act hopelessly even when you move accurately than that, you know that the intensity of the sensation is the same. It can reach extreme values.
It’s the feeling that makes you want to check his Facebook page when you have no messages from him. then Maybe “liking” the situation. Or leave a comment. Of course not why he didn’t call. of course, Just to tell him that you exist and around.
Or if you know where he’s going to be, oh! What a coincidence, you just have to be there.
Or if you are abroad with him and trying to do your best to nail him down next time.
Or when you call to make sure that he hasn’t called because you haven’t had a phone reception for a while.
As a man, I feel it’s very open and honestly, men don’t appreciate it. You have to be convincing and mysterious if you really want to trigger the instinct of the man’s hero.